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Part of why approach anxiety is so insidious is because we worry that we’re going to screw up so badly that everyone will hear about it.
Now we’re functionally exiled from society because people will have heard the legend of how badly we got shot down.
What makes the difference between the socially successful and the people who trundle from rejection to rejection are that the successful ones don’t let rejection destroy them.
It may be that she doesn’t care for guys with your accent.
She had a bad experience with someone who shared your hobby.
And while it can be difficult to face your fears, part of what helps makes them less all-consuming is to of the pain of being rejected – registers as actual pain.
The shortness of breath, the sharp pains that come with rejection, are real. On the base, primal level, rejection represents a threat to our existence.