Older gay men and dating
To say I wish I was a big boy again would not be too far from the truth.
At least when I was a big guy, men were more interested in other aspects of me." —Erich, 24 "Gay apps usually come with some sort of sorting hat for your 'gay tribe.' It sucks that there is so much division within the gay community in that respect.
Can't you just date me for me and not be turned on/off by my tan skin?
Why do I have to worry if someone ONLY dates Latin guys? '" —Joaquín, 24 "Nothing's worse than getting a message from a guy online who refuses to show you a picture because they are 'discreet." If you are an out and proud gay man, it's hard to date someone who doesn't want to be seen with you/hold your hand in public.
There are so many guys looking to crunch it up that this is really more of a men hunt than a manhunt dating site.On the other hand, it sucks because there's less for you to discover from spending actual, in-person time with him." —Dylan, 29 "When 'Masc4Masc' and 'Straight Acting' are no longer a thing, then a lot of our dating problems would be eliminated.You can be having a great conversation with a guy online, then, at the slightest suspicion that you are a total queen, you are ghosted. We just need to learn that some guys really are into Britney Spears while others really do love monster trucks, but that doesn't define what they can bring to dating or a relationship." —Jeremy, 22 "The biggest struggle of dating is the internal battle one undergoes when deciding if he wants an open, polyamorous, or monogamous relationship.What if the person I'm with right now isn't the right person for me?Am I saying no to all the other guys who might be the one I want to spend my life with?